生活是一场游戏

生活就像一场游戏，在这个游戏中，你把五只球抛向空中，并喊着他们各自的名字——工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵。你现在正在做的就是让这五只球始终停留在空中。

你明白“工作”是只橡皮球，即使你没有接住它，它也会反弹回来。但其他四个球都是用玻璃做成的，一旦你不小心使它们其中一个落在了地上，那将会在它身上造成不可拭去的磨损、划痕、缺口，甚至是摔得粉碎，再也无法恢复到原来的样子。因此，你必须学着尽可能地平衡自己的生活。但应该如何去做呢？

不要攀比他人而妄自菲薄。每个人都是独一无二的，每个人都很特别。

不要跟随大众的价值观去设定自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。

不要在仍有余力的时候就选择放弃。在你停止尝试之前，没有什么事会真正地失败。

不要害怕承认自己的不完美。正是这根缺憾之线使我们彼此紧紧相连。

不要在冒险面前胆怯。正因如此我们才学会勇敢面对。

不要因为找不到真爱而把它弃之门外。最快得到的爱的途径是付出爱；最快丢失爱的原因是拴紧爱；最好留住爱的方式是让爱自由。

不要忘记，一个人最大的精神需求就是感到被人赏识。

不要害怕学习。知识是没有重量的珍宝，你总能轻松携带。

不要肆意地耗费时间或是运用言辞。两者皆失不可复得。

不要因追恋过去或妄想未来而让生命从指缝间溜走。踏实地过好每一天，才能享受自己的一辈子。

不要使自己的生活节奏过快而忘记了自己身在何处，将去何方。

生活不是一场竞赛，而是一段旅途，需要慢慢享受途中的每一步。昨天是历史，明天是未知，而今天才是生命的礼物。因此我们称它为“Present ”。

The Simple Life

简单的生活

• 宁静的早晨。
• 与我的小宝贝在车里唱一首悠长的歌。
• 夕阳，啤酒，爱人。
• 长跑后的酣畅淋漓。
• 蜷在沙发上，与妻子孩子一起看碟。
• 和我的儿子在雨中散步。
• 在车里与我的大女儿谈论我的“人生”。
• 穿着睡裤，写一篇文章，读者50000人。
• 感觉不舒服，躺在床上一整天，不用给老板打电话。
• 带我那两岁的孩子看星星布满的夜空。
• 为孩子们的足球赛加油喝彩。
• 独自一人，读一本好书。
• 喝一杯煮好的咖啡，精神饱满。
• 寒冷冬日的一碗热蔬菜汤。
• 在太阳升起前写作。
• 新鲜，冰镇的浆果。
• 和好友的一次促膝长谈。
• 午后禁不住打个小盹。
• 和我的孩子在花园里踢球。
• 经历考验后的满足感。
• 醒来发现躺在整洁的卧室里。
• 对我四岁儿子独特的幽默感哈哈大笑。
• 为我儿子的进球得分尖叫。
• 在跑完马拉松后瘫倒在地，精疲力竭但挚爱着生活。
• 周六的午后与母亲和姐妹一起度过，烘焙甜点。
• 洗一个热水澡。
• 踩在沙滩上，沙子在脚趾间的触感，欣赏落日。
• 听着海浪拍打白色沙滩的声音。
• 在我需要时，给我一个拥抱。
• 清晨草叶上新鲜的露珠。

• Quiet mornings.
• Sing-a-long songs with my toddlers in the car.
• Sunset and a beer with my wife.
• Runner’s high on a long run.
• Cuddling up and watching a DVD with the wife and kids.
• Walking outside with my son after it rains.
• My “life” talks with my eldest daughter in the car.
• Writing a post for 50,000 people, in my pajamas.
• Feeling sick and lying in bed all day without having to call my boss.
• Showing my 2-year-old the clear starry sky.
• Cheering my kids on in their soccer games.
• Time alone with a good book.
• Freshly brewed coffee.
• My hot veggie soup on a cold day.
• Writing before the sun rises.
• Fresh, cold berries.
• A long conversation with a friend.
• Succumbing to a mid-afternoon nap.
• Playing kickball in the yard with my kids.
• The feeling of satisfaction after a workout.
• Waking up to a clean, uncluttered living room.
• Laughing at my 4-year-old son’s wacky sense of humor.
• Screaming my head off when my son scores a goal.
• Collapsing after finishing a marathon, exhausted but in love with life.
• Spending time with my mom and sisters on a Saturday afternoon, baking sweets.
• Letting a warm chocolate chip cookie melt in my mouth with my eyes closed.
• A long hot shower.
• Walking with the sand between my toes as the sun goes down.
• Listening to the sound of waves lapping a white sand beach.
• A hug when I need it.
• Dew on the grass in the morning.

What is Life About?

When you grieve you can so easily concentrate on death, or dying that you can forget the purpose of life. Life and death are circular friends who dance with each other day in day out…so what is my take on life?

L= Love and to be loved

I = Inspire a legacy which you can be proud of

F= Family and friends and the human bonds that we create, share and experience together

E= Enjoy the rarest gift that we have been given life. You are given the chance to enjoy the world, life has to be about love and enjoyment

That is my take - what would your L.I.F.E acronym stand for?

人生规划

我们每天忙碌的工作 埋头蛮干 是否有想过一些问题？生命有限量，就像横尺，每个人都会有自己的尺度，我们现在游走到那个刻度，前面又剩下多少尺码，其实我们并不知，然而回头想想，小孩子不懂事时的那些理想，现在都觉得好遥远，比那消失的重点保护动物都难觅踪影。我的一个朋友，现在不到30岁，做过的工作已经不下30份。对他来说，生命就是个过程，体验不同，感受也不同，然而自己喜欢是最重要，这样才不会浪费生命，因为他知道自己想要什么，明白自己是什么，所以他活的很充实。

下班时候在书店站了一个钟头，背着大书包看一本教人规划自己人生的书。在专家看来，人生就该是由一个个的职业计划表以及行事日程表来组成，生命的纯度决定于你是否掌握时间管理的要领。很明显，这就是我们所熟知的成功学。

Life is only illusion或者life is calendar，是完全不同的活法。

“S”计划——2007年健康秘诀新时尚(图)

2007年健康原则新时尚——全新“S”计划：Sleep（优质睡眠）、Strong（个性坚强）、Slim（健美身材）、Smile（自信微笑）、Sunny（阳光心情）、Smart（聪慧灵秀）。六个“S”秘诀，您能做到几个？

What is S Plan? If you dont know the coined word, youaredropped behind. Reflecting a series of new ideas towardshealth,S Plan, the new trend in 2007s healthy project, iscomposed ofseveral words with S as initial letter.. Followingthis plan,youll become healthier in both body and mind.

Sleep better

Sleeping is very important in our daily life. Good sleep meansagood beginning next day. Thats why sleeping is considered asthefirst step among all S steps. To get the aim, youd bettergiveup bad living habits like smoking and overdrinking, and domoreexcise, such as Yoga and Pilates to relax yourself.

Be strong in both mind and better

The word strong here dose not mean a powerful body only, italsorefers to a strong personality. Today, no matter you are maleorfemale, you have to undertake lots of pressures. So in 2007,youhave to be a strong person to adapt the busy modern city.

Become slim

How to Become slim has always been a hot topic amongofficeladies. However, hereslim doesnt mean bony but refers to akindof fit shape. We all know that obesity arouses many diseases,whiletoo bony causes health problems as well. So, do some exercisestoBecome slim and keep yourself healthy.

Smile confidently

Smile is a good way to release your pressure and getmoreconfidences.

Have a sunny heart

Psychological health problem has arisen. Many people want toknowhow to get rid of the gloomy mood and Have a sunny heart. Therearelots of ways, such as going out with friends, taking a shorttrip,having a get-together with your family. Sometimes, even asmallthing, such as a flower can light your up!

Smart adds your charms

It is said that girls who are praised beautiful are becausetheyare smart and intelligent. As time goes, this concept hasbeenapproved by more and more people. No matter youre male orfemale,learning as much as you can, grasping as many skills as youcan.Knowledge makes you more attractive.

via:sohu